The Great Bra Struggles

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Cons of Bariatric Surgery….It’s always something 🤷🏽‍♀️

Just when we thought we were getting rid of one issue, bariatric surgery brought a whole new one. LOL.

I was getting ready to go out on a date and I had to stop and notice the difference in my bras. My breast were massive. When I look at the cup difference I’m just in shock that I carried the weight of those humongous jugs for so long.

I was always a part of the “itty bitty titty committee”.

Pre pregnancy I was able to fill out a C cup but I wore a B cup regularly. I didn’t get larger breasts until pregnancy, after the kids started coming it was a wrap.

Prior to VSG my largest bra cup size was a EEE. Before surgery I was squeezing into a 44 – 46 DDD.

I have always struggled with bras ALWAYS. My breasts were very dense and heavy. Pregnancy made it worse because my breasts would inflate and deflate depending on what was going on at the time. I’ll tell you one thing though… breastfeeding had me looking like a pin up. LOL

The thing about big breasts is that everybody wants them until you actually get them. Because of the weight of my boobs (I’m going to keep using boobs from here on out) I had serious back issues.

I would always be in pain in my lower back. My bra straps would leave deep indentations on my shoulders because the support was never good enough. I wore 2 bras every day for over 2 years just to be comfortable at work. I had major shoulder pain and muscles tightness from the daily life of having large and heavy boobs. It was crazy!

After having my gastric sleeve, I noticed a change in my boobs but it wasn’t a huge change. When I really noticed that my boobs had gone to shit was when I had to stuff a push up bra with socks. One that I had previously overflowed. Read about it HERE . My boobs literally looked like they were caving in. LMAO. I was about 14 months post op.

So of course my first mindset was… its time to get new bras. Then I went to measure and realized I have to account for loose skin. It’s very hard to find bras that give you everything you need on the regular, when you have had a major weight loss surgery.

It causes drastic changes so rapidly, one week you’re one size the next week it’s falling off. The first set of new bras I bought lasted all but 3 weeks before I was on the bra hunt again.

Sports bras are always a life saver but sports bras don’t go with everything. They are perfect for at home and on the go comfort.

I have had to try all types of bras wire, no wire, small cup, large cup, skinny straps, thick straps, printed and patterned bras, maternity, plus size, cheap, expensive, minimizers, t-shirt bras you name it.

Right now I’m bouncing around cup sizes trying to see what fits the best. I’ve been sticking around 34 – 36 DDD. But, I think I need a DD cup…it’s the side boob fat…bruh it’s killing meeeeeeeee. My boobs are more full at the bottom, so I love push ups because well….they push everything UP!

I haven’t owned a push up bra since I was a teenager. But thanks to VSG I have a new reason to buy some. LOL.

I’m currently 2 years post op and I haven’t decided when I want to get plastics done so I have to keep fighting this bra battle until I find a great intimate’s line to hold these girls up.

I’ll keep you posted.

Simple, Sexy, Sleek…VSG Fashion 2 Years Post Op

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VSG Fashion for a night out on the town, Let’s hit the streets…

My favorite part of this outing was getting ready. My outfit was simple but stylish…something I never thought I would be able to do. I had recently changed my hair color, so I was feeling all spicy and stuff.

This was my first time wearing a hat as an accessory on purpose and for good reason. LOL! I was able to purchase my first fedora hat from Amazon and it cost me like 16 bucks.

Tonight started off with me wearing an off-shoulder sweater top by Fashion Nova. I go to put the damn sweater on, and the arm sleeve literally split in half at the seam. Sometimes Fashion Nova clothes be pissing me off because you get like 1 good wear out of some of there pieces, store it, take it back out, then boom your shit is ruined.

SMH…anyway.

I did not have time to sew it back together, so I had to go into my closet. Last year my husband purchased this black leather shirt by J.Lo. I had absolutely no reason to wear it, and I didn’t even know how to style it.  Well tonight that was top choice.

I was so frustrated because I actually take time putting my outfits together now. I get throwed off sometimes when things go wrong with my outfit selection. Especially if I’m in a rush.

I decided to pair the top with a set of my cotton lined fleece leggings I purchased from Rainbow for like $5. I’m usually not a color person but since having VSG all I want to do is express myself through color.

The color of choice tonight was emerald green. It matched my hair, my makeup, and gave a very sleek look.

My ankle booties were also purchased from Amazon…that’s where I have been getting a lot of my shoes lately. There and a shoe store in McDonough , GA called Shoe Show. They have really hot and eccentric styles. I wrote about them in another article “Let’s Ditch the leggings”.

During the fall season here in Georgia, you can need a jacket on any random night. Once the sun goes down you need a jacket with anything you put on to be honest.

My bubble jacket is an oldie but goodie, it never fails me. I don’t even know where I purchased the thing from. It was literally the only bubble jacket I’ve owned. LMAO When I was 95 pounds heavier the jacket was always so snug and fitted. Now it’s super big but I can do that whole wrap around effect thing when people get cold. It keeps me warm for sure.

My favorite part is when I get halfway dressed usually at this point it’s only accessories, makeup touch up and hair. I pull out the camera the moment I say “girl you fine, fine”.  Do a whole 50 pic photo shoot then finish getting dressed. Another photo shoot usually follows right behind “Ok, I’m finished… lets go y’all”. 

My brother usually gets my angles, he’s teaching me how to work the camera and the mirror. I never cared from before because I wasn’t happy with myself, but now I am. I love myself so much and I enjoy every moment of exploring this new me. I photograph and document all things my life.

After it was all said and done my sexy sleek let’s hit the streets was in full effect! And off to The Vortex Bar & Grill for date night. (You can find that story here Orgy for your Tastebuds)

Outfit Details Below:

Fedora from AMAZON

Accessories from Rainbow Shops

¾ Leather Shirt by JLO  Rainbow Shops

Fleece Lined Leggings Rainbow Shops

Chunky Platform Ankle Boots AMAZON

Hair by Me